Well, last night was the first time I sersly hooked up with a girl. A little late?, 16?, yea it is, but not too long ago I was wbafc. So anyway, I never really liked this girl, she was just my friend that hit on me. Eh well I went over her house and hooked up and cuddled with her for a while. Wow first time yay, but the problem is, I feel way too attracted to this girl now and I don't want to be, I feel like I have oneits, I woke up, feeling like sh!t, looking like sh!t, and beyond emotional. I'm lost, help.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
?Extreme Oneitis After First Hook up?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
INXS
Don Juan
Go meet new women..NOW. This is the BEST cure.
She was your first one, it's just a normal reaction. If you are starting to like her there is no reason to deny yourself that situation. If she is no quality then count on the fact that you will come to your senses once the "holy ****', i just busted a nut" feeling fades.
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It's your first time, so it's normal for you to feel this way. If you hooked up with another girl the following day, and another one the day after that, you wouldn't feel so 'attached' to this one.SexinEar said:Well, last night was the first time I sersly hooked up with a girl. A little late?, 16?, yea it is, but not too long ago I was wbafc. So anyway, I never really liked this girl, she was just my friend that hit on me. Eh well I went over her house and hooked up and cuddled with her for a while. Wow first time yay, but the problem is, I feel way too attracted to this girl now and I don't want to be, I feel like I have oneits, I woke up, feeling like sh!t, looking like sh!t, and beyond emotional. I'm lost, help.
Use some of that confidence you now have to meet other girls. Never, ever get 'to' attached to any 'one' girl.
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LMFAO>>> this is what just happened, the horrible oneitis feeling lasted a couple hours, you couldn't be more right.******* said:If she is no quality then count on the fact that you will come to your senses once the "holy ****', i just busted a nut" feeling fades.