Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Yeah, I don't see anything about that guy that disqualifies him from getting laid. He's not deformed or anything. Maybe he won't be able to get that girl he has oneitis for, but boo hoo. You aren't entitled to everything you want. He may have psychological scars from his romantic feelings, and those can be hard to overcome, but they can be overcome. That "Oh well, it's not for you" attitude isn't going to get him anywhere.this is the victim mindset and its pathetic. Work hard and earn your confidence
Agreed. But men are more lenient/forgiving/generous appraisers of other men’s looks if we notice a guy struggling with women.Yeah, I don't see anything about that guy that disqualifies him from getting laid. He's not deformed or anything. Maybe he won't be able to get that girl he has oneitis for, but boo hoo. You aren't entitled to everything you want. He may have psychological scars from his romantic feelings, and those can be hard to overcome, but they can be overcome. That "Oh well, it's not for you" attitude isn't going to get him anywhere.