"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Gf of over a year has been saying "I love you" a lot lately like 3 times a day.
She said it before, but usually around once a day. And she saying it first.

So... is she hinting at something?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ok now listen carefully.... you have her in that sweet spot... you have to maintain the challenge for her cause as soon as you get comfortable she will get board.... Make her work for your returned affections. always make her know you are special and she must cherish you... her love is like a plant that need water soil and sun..!!! DO NOT SIMP OUT.. let her stay one step ahead emotionally....
 
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Don is actually giving some great advice here. This is where most DJ's falter myself included. Keeping the spice alive and prevent it from getting bored. Pull back a little every once in a while. Go out and spend time with the guys.

Always be the prize. Don't make yourself available to her 24/7. However still show her affection, just don't shower her with it.

Keep us posted on the situation. I'm interested as I tend to be too available and emotional when I get involved in a relationship.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ughhh !
she is trying to trick you into saying it back before you are ready.
if you say it but you do not know if you mean it or not, get ready...
because she will already start planning out the rest of your lives.

do not let her trick you into being at her beg and call because you told her that you loved her back...
 
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Sort of sounds like shes testing you. She might want to see how attached you are by showing how attached she is. Just act as usual bro and enjoy the fact that she does love you.
 
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