"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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inzone50

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Gf of over a year has been saying "I love you" a lot lately like 3 times a day.
She said it before, but usually around once a day. And she saying it first.

So... is she hinting at something?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonGorgon

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ok now listen carefully.... you have her in that sweet spot... you have to maintain the challenge for her cause as soon as you get comfortable she will get board.... Make her work for your returned affections. always make her know you are special and she must cherish you... her love is like a plant that need water soil and sun..!!! DO NOT SIMP OUT.. let her stay one step ahead emotionally....
 

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Don is actually giving some great advice here. This is where most DJ's falter myself included. Keeping the spice alive and prevent it from getting bored. Pull back a little every once in a while. Go out and spend time with the guys.

Always be the prize. Don't make yourself available to her 24/7. However still show her affection, just don't shower her with it.

Keep us posted on the situation. I'm interested as I tend to be too available and emotional when I get involved in a relationship.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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penkitten

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ughhh !
she is trying to trick you into saying it back before you are ready.
if you say it but you do not know if you mean it or not, get ready...
because she will already start planning out the rest of your lives.

do not let her trick you into being at her beg and call because you told her that you loved her back...
 

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Sort of sounds like shes testing you. She might want to see how attached you are by showing how attached she is. Just act as usual bro and enjoy the fact that she does love you.
 
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