"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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inzone50

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Gf of over a year has been saying "I love you" a lot lately like 3 times a day.
She said it before, but usually around once a day. And she saying it first.

So... is she hinting at something?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ok now listen carefully.... you have her in that sweet spot... you have to maintain the challenge for her cause as soon as you get comfortable she will get board.... Make her work for your returned affections. always make her know you are special and she must cherish you... her love is like a plant that need water soil and sun..!!! DO NOT SIMP OUT.. let her stay one step ahead emotionally....
 
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Don is actually giving some great advice here. This is where most DJ's falter myself included. Keeping the spice alive and prevent it from getting bored. Pull back a little every once in a while. Go out and spend time with the guys.

Always be the prize. Don't make yourself available to her 24/7. However still show her affection, just don't shower her with it.

Keep us posted on the situation. I'm interested as I tend to be too available and emotional when I get involved in a relationship.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ughhh !
she is trying to trick you into saying it back before you are ready.
if you say it but you do not know if you mean it or not, get ready...
because she will already start planning out the rest of your lives.

do not let her trick you into being at her beg and call because you told her that you loved her back...
 
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Sort of sounds like shes testing you. She might want to see how attached you are by showing how attached she is. Just act as usual bro and enjoy the fact that she does love you.
 
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