"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Experienced DJ but needs relationship advice

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NatiL

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I've got a girlfriend who loves me alot and great rapport etc. I've been damn alpha around her and when I emotionally withdraw it can even bring her to tears.

Great stuff, and makes me feel pretty secure. I'm definitely not in one-itis, I even got her to agree to "keep her ears closed" when I sleep with other girls if she's not around.

But, I found she flirted with a guy pretty hard.. someone we talked about having a threesome / foursome? with.. The guy is attractive but really not alpha, he's shy about going to clubs and dancing and all.

She said: 'dont get too drunk, or i'll take advantage of you'. I know she's attracted to him.

So.. how do I react? To me it seems really serious, for a relationship, but i'm worried punishing / withdrawing will just make her associate the negative feelings for me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What outcome would you like happen?
 
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Alpha male????????

How can you claim to be an Alpha male, when she is crapping all over you?:moon:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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