"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've got a girlfriend who loves me alot and great rapport etc. I've been damn alpha around her and when I emotionally withdraw it can even bring her to tears.

Great stuff, and makes me feel pretty secure. I'm definitely not in one-itis, I even got her to agree to "keep her ears closed" when I sleep with other girls if she's not around.

But, I found she flirted with a guy pretty hard.. someone we talked about having a threesome / foursome? with.. The guy is attractive but really not alpha, he's shy about going to clubs and dancing and all.

She said: 'dont get too drunk, or i'll take advantage of you'. I know she's attracted to him.

So.. how do I react? To me it seems really serious, for a relationship, but i'm worried punishing / withdrawing will just make her associate the negative feelings for me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What outcome would you like happen?
 
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Alpha male????????

How can you claim to be an Alpha male, when she is crapping all over you?:moon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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