Chev.Chelios
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Your really going to get killed or fvcked up one of these days doing that.. scum bag
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
experience with a single mom
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
FwoGiZ
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I know... lotso blue pills angry alpha out there...like you I am guessing?
for some reason tho, I have skills in defusing aggro guys but I'll be honest, I never had to deal with a dude that just found out I fcked his b1tch and that think it's MY fault.
So far so good, gotta be smart man
or be a delusional pvssy and blame the whole world instead of your own self once again
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Who is the scum bag here, FwoGiZ or the girl cheating...? I know which is which.
FwoGiZ
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Exactly my thoughts.
But in all seriousness, most of those women are really good respectable women. They're simply struggling with biological stuff... they crave sex with new person too, not as much as a guy but they really do. I literally explain the whole thing to them which turns them on even more and at that point they understand I am very discrete.
I don't believe in monogamy and societal programming is bs yet a lot of people on this forum will yell slvt and h0e and what not when it also applies to their women.
Anyways this is way off topic
**** societal programming tho..
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I dated a single mom for awhile.. I started to get feelings for her and her daughter. We had fun and the sex was good. But, the ex husband started coming around causing drama and I had to RUN!!
It was the first SM I dated and learned my lesson the hard way. Now, some people meet other single parents, get married and might even have kids of their own. And thats okay if it works out. Not every situation is the same. BUT keep your guard up!
We had fun and the sex was good. But, the ex husband started coming around causing drama and I had to RUN!! It was the first SM I dated and learned my lesson the hard way. Now, some people meet other single parents, get married and might even have kids of their own. And thats okay if it works out. Not every situation is the same. BUT keep your guard up!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I've done the kitset family thing a couple of times. Didn't work out for me as they never seem to be able to bond properly. Now I have a blanket ban on single moms. My rule was no interaction with the kid for the first 6 months to avoid a revolving door of insta daddy's. If you're not up for the role I think you have to bail within that time. It's always going to come up. And look maybe it's my age but I'm not down with all the amoral guys here. Fvcking other mens wives is not making the world a better place. There's so many other woman in the world available for that. Sure a ho is gonna ho. But do you really need to validate that behaviour.
FwoGiZ
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Simply proving my point and trying to enlighten more people that monogamy is societal programming and wrong, more than ever in our fast evolving culture.
No one enjoys it, it creates from very very VERY far the most problems in probably 80-90% of relationships.
I'll bang SM but after a month, she'd understand really well that "I don't like children/kids... AT ALL"
Reality, is I never lasted more than couple weeks... Last time, I couldn't stay over for the night when her kid woke up... I just fckin left... she got the msg. "your kid obviously needs you... I bet she's wondering what all that noise is, go with her, I'm outta here!"
No one enjoys it, it creates from very very VERY far the most problems in probably 80-90% of relationships.
I'll bang SM but after a month, she'd understand really well that "I don't like children/kids... AT ALL"
Reality, is I never lasted more than couple weeks... Last time, I couldn't stay over for the night when her kid woke up... I just fckin left... she got the msg. "your kid obviously needs you... I bet she's wondering what all that noise is, go with her, I'm outta here!"