Chev.Chelios
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Your really going to get killed or fvcked up one of these days doing that.. scum bag
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
experience with a single mom
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
FwoGiZ
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I know... lotso blue pills angry alpha out there...like you I am guessing?
for some reason tho, I have skills in defusing aggro guys but I'll be honest, I never had to deal with a dude that just found out I fcked his b1tch and that think it's MY fault.
So far so good, gotta be smart man
or be a delusional pvssy and blame the whole world instead of your own self once again
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Who is the scum bag here, FwoGiZ or the girl cheating...? I know which is which.
FwoGiZ
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Exactly my thoughts.
But in all seriousness, most of those women are really good respectable women. They're simply struggling with biological stuff... they crave sex with new person too, not as much as a guy but they really do. I literally explain the whole thing to them which turns them on even more and at that point they understand I am very discrete.
I don't believe in monogamy and societal programming is bs yet a lot of people on this forum will yell slvt and h0e and what not when it also applies to their women.
Anyways this is way off topic
**** societal programming tho..
Krueg
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I dated a single mom for awhile.. I started to get feelings for her and her daughter. We had fun and the sex was good. But, the ex husband started coming around causing drama and I had to RUN!!
It was the first SM I dated and learned my lesson the hard way. Now, some people meet other single parents, get married and might even have kids of their own. And thats okay if it works out. Not every situation is the same. BUT keep your guard up!
We had fun and the sex was good. But, the ex husband started coming around causing drama and I had to RUN!! It was the first SM I dated and learned my lesson the hard way. Now, some people meet other single parents, get married and might even have kids of their own. And thats okay if it works out. Not every situation is the same. BUT keep your guard up!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I've done the kitset family thing a couple of times. Didn't work out for me as they never seem to be able to bond properly. Now I have a blanket ban on single moms. My rule was no interaction with the kid for the first 6 months to avoid a revolving door of insta daddy's. If you're not up for the role I think you have to bail within that time. It's always going to come up. And look maybe it's my age but I'm not down with all the amoral guys here. Fvcking other mens wives is not making the world a better place. There's so many other woman in the world available for that. Sure a ho is gonna ho. But do you really need to validate that behaviour.
FwoGiZ
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Simply proving my point and trying to enlighten more people that monogamy is societal programming and wrong, more than ever in our fast evolving culture.
No one enjoys it, it creates from very very VERY far the most problems in probably 80-90% of relationships.
I'll bang SM but after a month, she'd understand really well that "I don't like children/kids... AT ALL"
Reality, is I never lasted more than couple weeks... Last time, I couldn't stay over for the night when her kid woke up... I just fckin left... she got the msg. "your kid obviously needs you... I bet she's wondering what all that noise is, go with her, I'm outta here!"
No one enjoys it, it creates from very very VERY far the most problems in probably 80-90% of relationships.
I'll bang SM but after a month, she'd understand really well that "I don't like children/kids... AT ALL"
Reality, is I never lasted more than couple weeks... Last time, I couldn't stay over for the night when her kid woke up... I just fckin left... she got the msg. "your kid obviously needs you... I bet she's wondering what all that noise is, go with her, I'm outta here!"