"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Exgf messages strikes again!

Rxnxg

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So I deleted my exgf from everywhere (thank god) and sometimes she messages me trough FB even if I don't have her, lately she didn't message me for like 1 month and now she did send a message saying sorry about how she acted the time we were together etc etc.

Is it worth replying in any way or I should just leave it be?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Leave it. It's only a crumb.

What is there to respond to? She is ONLY trying to justify what she did and see of your still on the hook.

You respond and she will know your still there for her.

You don't respond and her wheels will start spinning. Why isn't he biting? What is he doing that would keep him from acknowledging me? Is he talking to someone else?

You control how she acts now. Which would you prefer?
 

dude99

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So I deleted my exgf from everywhere (thank god) and sometimes she messages me trough FB even if I don't have her, lately she didn't message me for like 1 month and now she did send a message saying sorry about how she acted the time we were together etc etc.

Is it worth replying in any way or I should just leave it be?
Ignore. Delete.
 

lizardking82

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I would say treat it like a ****buddy, but it's an ex. Better not wake up old emotions, you do not have full control over them anyways.
 

marmel75

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So I deleted my exgf from everywhere (thank god) and sometimes she messages me trough FB even if I don't have her, lately she didn't message me for like 1 month and now she did send a message saying sorry about how she acted the time we were together etc etc.

Is it worth replying in any way or I should just leave it be?
Haha, I'd say

"No worries, I've found someone who treats me with the respect I deserve.

Take care."

This will put her hamster into turbo overddrive
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Haha, I'd say

"No worries, I've found someone who treats me with the respect I deserve.

Take care."

This will put her hamster into turbo overddrive
I like it. Throw her emotions into a turmoil filled black hole and walk away with a smile as her ego bursts into flames.
 

Rxnxg

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I think I'll just limit myself, it's not worth more I guess.
 

El Payaso

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"My new chick probably wouldn't appreciate you texting me".
Haha, I'd say

"No worries, I've found someone who treats me with the respect I deserve.

Take care."

This will put her hamster into turbo overddrive
I like these two. These will probably drive her insane.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Von

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Block her on fb

She'll texto you on the phone next.... than write "who's this"

It will shot her down

If she doesnt get the message: "i am with my new gf, have a good life"
 
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