"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I deleted my exgf from everywhere (thank god) and sometimes she messages me trough FB even if I don't have her, lately she didn't message me for like 1 month and now she did send a message saying sorry about how she acted the time we were together etc etc.

Is it worth replying in any way or I should just leave it be?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Leave it. It's only a crumb.

What is there to respond to? She is ONLY trying to justify what she did and see of your still on the hook.

You respond and she will know your still there for her.

You don't respond and her wheels will start spinning. Why isn't he biting? What is he doing that would keep him from acknowledging me? Is he talking to someone else?

You control how she acts now. Which would you prefer?
 

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So I deleted my exgf from everywhere (thank god) and sometimes she messages me trough FB even if I don't have her, lately she didn't message me for like 1 month and now she did send a message saying sorry about how she acted the time we were together etc etc.

Is it worth replying in any way or I should just leave it be?
Ignore. Delete.
 

lizardking82

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I would say treat it like a ****buddy, but it's an ex. Better not wake up old emotions, you do not have full control over them anyways.
 

marmel75

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So I deleted my exgf from everywhere (thank god) and sometimes she messages me trough FB even if I don't have her, lately she didn't message me for like 1 month and now she did send a message saying sorry about how she acted the time we were together etc etc.

Is it worth replying in any way or I should just leave it be?
Haha, I'd say

"No worries, I've found someone who treats me with the respect I deserve.

Take care."

This will put her hamster into turbo overddrive
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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Haha, I'd say

"No worries, I've found someone who treats me with the respect I deserve.

Take care."

This will put her hamster into turbo overddrive
I like it. Throw her emotions into a turmoil filled black hole and walk away with a smile as her ego bursts into flames.
 

Rxnxg

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I think I'll just limit myself, it's not worth more I guess.
 

El Payaso

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"My new chick probably wouldn't appreciate you texting me".
Haha, I'd say

"No worries, I've found someone who treats me with the respect I deserve.

Take care."

This will put her hamster into turbo overddrive
I like these two. These will probably drive her insane.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Von

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Block her on fb

She'll texto you on the phone next.... than write "who's this"

It will shot her down

If she doesnt get the message: "i am with my new gf, have a good life"
 
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