"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Excuses, excuses, excuses!

PatZull

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Everywhere I turn I see excuses. People trying to think of external factors as their obstacles. People wasting hours and hours trying to think why something turned wrong or why this and this happened (why to me, god?). All this in search of excuses.

I don't know if you see the big picture, dear reader, but excuses are lame. They are a trait of a weak person, who is constantly blaiming life for being cruel and unfair. I doubt any of you want to be (or even just called) a weak person.

So, you are on the crossroad once again. You must choose once and for all where you are going to. THERE'S NO TIME to think over and over failures and past events. It's time to ACT NOW! You either choose the easy, yet destructive, road, blaming outside factors and things beyond your range of control, or you can take your sh1t together, NOW, and ask yourself the so simple, yet so effective question: what WILL I DO to fix this and this and to prevent that and that from ruining my life? And start doing it NOW, or you'll forever be caputured in the vicious circle of inaction and lame excuses, you'll always be on that crossroad, trying to figure out which way to go, when your heart is already telling you what you want to be! YOU WANT TO BE GREAT! SO DO IT NOW!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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good $hit i needed this thanks
 

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Heyyy Pat! You disappeared. Whatever happened to your diary? I enjoyed reading that.
 

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twizted_pro wrote:
good $hit i needed this thanks
I'm glad I helped you! :)


Porky wrote:
Heyyy Pat! You disappeared. Whatever happened to your diary? I enjoyed reading that.
Hey, Proky! Well, I though nobody was reading it, and no one was posting advice or anything, so I though I was wasting my time writing sh1t everyday, and so my improvement stumbled a little, but maybe it was for the better. :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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