"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Excuses, excuses, excuses!

PatZull

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Everywhere I turn I see excuses. People trying to think of external factors as their obstacles. People wasting hours and hours trying to think why something turned wrong or why this and this happened (why to me, god?). All this in search of excuses.

I don't know if you see the big picture, dear reader, but excuses are lame. They are a trait of a weak person, who is constantly blaiming life for being cruel and unfair. I doubt any of you want to be (or even just called) a weak person.

So, you are on the crossroad once again. You must choose once and for all where you are going to. THERE'S NO TIME to think over and over failures and past events. It's time to ACT NOW! You either choose the easy, yet destructive, road, blaming outside factors and things beyond your range of control, or you can take your sh1t together, NOW, and ask yourself the so simple, yet so effective question: what WILL I DO to fix this and this and to prevent that and that from ruining my life? And start doing it NOW, or you'll forever be caputured in the vicious circle of inaction and lame excuses, you'll always be on that crossroad, trying to figure out which way to go, when your heart is already telling you what you want to be! YOU WANT TO BE GREAT! SO DO IT NOW!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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good $hit i needed this thanks
 

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Heyyy Pat! You disappeared. Whatever happened to your diary? I enjoyed reading that.
 

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twizted_pro wrote:
good $hit i needed this thanks
I'm glad I helped you! :)


Porky wrote:
Heyyy Pat! You disappeared. Whatever happened to your diary? I enjoyed reading that.
Hey, Proky! Well, I though nobody was reading it, and no one was posting advice or anything, so I though I was wasting my time writing sh1t everyday, and so my improvement stumbled a little, but maybe it was for the better. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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