"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Excuses, excuses, excuses!

PatZull

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Everywhere I turn I see excuses. People trying to think of external factors as their obstacles. People wasting hours and hours trying to think why something turned wrong or why this and this happened (why to me, god?). All this in search of excuses.

I don't know if you see the big picture, dear reader, but excuses are lame. They are a trait of a weak person, who is constantly blaiming life for being cruel and unfair. I doubt any of you want to be (or even just called) a weak person.

So, you are on the crossroad once again. You must choose once and for all where you are going to. THERE'S NO TIME to think over and over failures and past events. It's time to ACT NOW! You either choose the easy, yet destructive, road, blaming outside factors and things beyond your range of control, or you can take your sh1t together, NOW, and ask yourself the so simple, yet so effective question: what WILL I DO to fix this and this and to prevent that and that from ruining my life? And start doing it NOW, or you'll forever be caputured in the vicious circle of inaction and lame excuses, you'll always be on that crossroad, trying to figure out which way to go, when your heart is already telling you what you want to be! YOU WANT TO BE GREAT! SO DO IT NOW!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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good $hit i needed this thanks
 

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Heyyy Pat! You disappeared. Whatever happened to your diary? I enjoyed reading that.
 

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twizted_pro wrote:
good $hit i needed this thanks
I'm glad I helped you! :)


Porky wrote:
Heyyy Pat! You disappeared. Whatever happened to your diary? I enjoyed reading that.
Hey, Proky! Well, I though nobody was reading it, and no one was posting advice or anything, so I though I was wasting my time writing sh1t everyday, and so my improvement stumbled a little, but maybe it was for the better. :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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