"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My ex just snapchatted me saying "answer my text ya jerk". I texted her half an hour later saying "what?" and she goes "how was your weekend?"

Should I even respond to this? Or continue ignoring her?

She always comes off as needy when I ignore her but as soon as I respond she hardly answers. But she still would say I love you when we hung out even though she was the one who broke up with me. Wtf kind of game is this? (and no I don't hang out with her anymore since I've smartened up)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You're in her frame. Until you learn to build a dominant frame, ignore her.
 
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why is she not blocked? BLOCK HER ON EVERYTHING. Delete her from you life and move on.

She wants attention- it's obvious. You are the idiot giving it to her. Wise up.
 
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emgehtow said:
My ex just snapchatted me saying "answer my text ya jerk". I texted her half an hour later saying "what?" and she goes "how was your weekend?"

Should I even respond to this? Or continue ignoring her?

She always comes off as needy when I ignore her but as soon as I respond she hardly answers. But she still would say I love you when we hung out even though she was the one who broke up with me. Wtf kind of game is this? (and no I don't hang out with her anymore since I've smartened up)
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She has youbon a string. You're feeding her ego.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lozboss said:
why is she not blocked? BLOCK HER ON EVERYTHING. Delete her from you life and move on.

She wants attention- it's obvious. You are the idiot giving it to her. Wise up.
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I know you're right. But I dont wanna burn a bridge with the potential of ****ing her again.
 
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she has sent about 4 more texts since then. the last asking if im alright >.>
 
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Im gonna take your advice and do just that. Its honestly really hard for me to do but you're right it has to be done.
 
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attitude... she has a negative one. Stay away.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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emgehtow said:
I know you're right. But I dont wanna burn a bridge with the potential of ****ing her again.
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The odds on you ever ****ing her again are pretty much nil. I'd stop wasting my time on a dead end girl. She is looking for you to validate her and feed her ego. You are obliging by not wanting to burn the bridge. She knows this since she has you on a string and she will give the string a tug everytime she wants attention and to be entrtained and you most likely will never **** her again. Stop wastingyour time.
 
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I agree. its done now. I hope she has a fun time trying to contact me
 
Lozboss

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emgehtow said:
I agree. its done now. I hope she has a fun time trying to contact me
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Stop caring at all.

I hope you have BLOCKED everything. That means phone/ social media/ whatsapp.
 
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Done and done. She is cut off, short of coming to my work or house theres no way to contact me. Thanks for being brutal with me guys
 
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