Ex trying to get me to talk to her

[emgehtow]

My ex just snapchatted me saying "answer my text ya jerk". I texted her half an hour later saying "what?" and she goes "how was your weekend?"

Should I even respond to this? Or continue ignoring her?

She always comes off as needy when I ignore her but as soon as I respond she hardly answers. But she still would say I love you when we hung out even though she was the one who broke up with me. Wtf kind of game is this? (and no I don't hang out with her anymore since I've smartened up)

 

[kenpiffyjr]

You're in her frame. Until you learn to build a dominant frame, ignore her.

 

[emgehtow]

what does that mean exactly

 

[Lozboss]

why is she not blocked? BLOCK HER ON EVERYTHING. Delete her from you life and move on.

She wants attention- it's obvious. You are the idiot giving it to her. Wise up.

 

[dude99]

My ex just snapchatted me saying "answer my text ya jerk". I texted her half an hour later saying "what?" and she goes "how was your weekend?"

Should I even respond to this? Or continue ignoring her?

She always comes off as needy when I ignore her but as soon as I respond she hardly answers. But she still would say I love you when we hung out even though she was the one who broke up with me. Wtf kind of game is this? (and no I don't hang out with her anymore since I've smartened up)

She has youbon a string. You're feeding her ego.

 

[emgehtow]

why is she not blocked? BLOCK HER ON EVERYTHING. Delete her from you life and move on.

She wants attention- it's obvious. You are the idiot giving it to her. Wise up.

I know you're right. But I dont wanna burn a bridge with the potential of ****ing her again.

 

[emgehtow]

she has sent about 4 more texts since then. the last asking if im alright >.>

 

[emgehtow]

Im gonna take your advice and do just that. Its honestly really hard for me to do but you're right it has to be done.

 

[wifehunter]

attitude... she has a negative one. Stay away.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

You are completely in her frame, as you've been told. Change that, you don't want to be in that powerless situation. Good luck mate

 

[dude99]

I know you're right. But I dont wanna burn a bridge with the potential of ****ing her again.

The odds on you ever ****ing her again are pretty much nil. I'd stop wasting my time on a dead end girl. She is looking for you to validate her and feed her ego. You are obliging by not wanting to burn the bridge. She knows this since she has you on a string and she will give the string a tug everytime she wants attention and to be entrtained and you most likely will never **** her again. Stop wastingyour time.

 

[emgehtow]

I agree. its done now. I hope she has a fun time trying to contact me

 

[Lozboss]

I agree. its done now. I hope she has a fun time trying to contact me

Stop caring at all.

I hope you have BLOCKED everything. That means phone/ social media/ whatsapp.

 

[emgehtow]

Done and done. She is cut off, short of coming to my work or house theres no way to contact me. Thanks for being brutal with me guys