"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ex trying to get me to talk to her

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My ex just snapchatted me saying "answer my text ya jerk". I texted her half an hour later saying "what?" and she goes "how was your weekend?"

Should I even respond to this? Or continue ignoring her?

She always comes off as needy when I ignore her but as soon as I respond she hardly answers. But she still would say I love you when we hung out even though she was the one who broke up with me. Wtf kind of game is this? (and no I don't hang out with her anymore since I've smartened up)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're in her frame. Until you learn to build a dominant frame, ignore her.
 
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why is she not blocked? BLOCK HER ON EVERYTHING. Delete her from you life and move on.

She wants attention- it's obvious. You are the idiot giving it to her. Wise up.
 
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emgehtow said:
My ex just snapchatted me saying "answer my text ya jerk". I texted her half an hour later saying "what?" and she goes "how was your weekend?"

Should I even respond to this? Or continue ignoring her?

She always comes off as needy when I ignore her but as soon as I respond she hardly answers. But she still would say I love you when we hung out even though she was the one who broke up with me. Wtf kind of game is this? (and no I don't hang out with her anymore since I've smartened up)
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She has youbon a string. You're feeding her ego.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lozboss said:
why is she not blocked? BLOCK HER ON EVERYTHING. Delete her from you life and move on.

She wants attention- it's obvious. You are the idiot giving it to her. Wise up.
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I know you're right. But I dont wanna burn a bridge with the potential of ****ing her again.
 
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she has sent about 4 more texts since then. the last asking if im alright >.>
 
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Im gonna take your advice and do just that. Its honestly really hard for me to do but you're right it has to be done.
 
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attitude... she has a negative one. Stay away.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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emgehtow said:
I know you're right. But I dont wanna burn a bridge with the potential of ****ing her again.
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The odds on you ever ****ing her again are pretty much nil. I'd stop wasting my time on a dead end girl. She is looking for you to validate her and feed her ego. You are obliging by not wanting to burn the bridge. She knows this since she has you on a string and she will give the string a tug everytime she wants attention and to be entrtained and you most likely will never **** her again. Stop wastingyour time.
 
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I agree. its done now. I hope she has a fun time trying to contact me
 
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emgehtow said:
I agree. its done now. I hope she has a fun time trying to contact me
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Stop caring at all.

I hope you have BLOCKED everything. That means phone/ social media/ whatsapp.
 
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Done and done. She is cut off, short of coming to my work or house theres no way to contact me. Thanks for being brutal with me guys
 
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