Reyaj
Master Don Juan
My girlfriend tells me how much she loves me.... Do they have a 6th sense?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Everytime I'm in cheating form
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
More than 6...many more.Jayer said:
My guess is that she intuits or senses or observes that your mind is focussed elsewhere and her " ..Love ya " is her attempt at re-focussing your attention back on her.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
So this just reinforces the theory thats its good to get distant every so often to keep them working for your attention.
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Yes I would agree.
What women say they want and what actually need are paradoxical. Any guy who has been in a few LTRs knows that they only want more and more of your time, your attention, and your life (unless you get all clingy on her). What satisfies them today isn't necessarily going to satisfy them 3 months from now. The fact of the matter is, they get bored with a man who is predicable and always there for them. They really have this deep need for man who has other sh!t to care about besides them.
What women say they want and what actually need are paradoxical. Any guy who has been in a few LTRs knows that they only want more and more of your time, your attention, and your life (unless you get all clingy on her). What satisfies them today isn't necessarily going to satisfy them 3 months from now. The fact of the matter is, they get bored with a man who is predicable and always there for them. They really have this deep need for man who has other sh!t to care about besides them.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.