Reyaj
Master Don Juan
My girlfriend tells me how much she loves me.... Do they have a 6th sense?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Everytime I'm in cheating form
- Thread starter Reyaj
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
More than 6...many more.Jayer said:
My guess is that she intuits or senses or observes that your mind is focussed elsewhere and her " ..Love ya " is her attempt at re-focussing your attention back on her.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
So this just reinforces the theory thats its good to get distant every so often to keep them working for your attention.
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Yes I would agree.
What women say they want and what actually need are paradoxical. Any guy who has been in a few LTRs knows that they only want more and more of your time, your attention, and your life (unless you get all clingy on her). What satisfies them today isn't necessarily going to satisfy them 3 months from now. The fact of the matter is, they get bored with a man who is predicable and always there for them. They really have this deep need for man who has other sh!t to care about besides them.
What women say they want and what actually need are paradoxical. Any guy who has been in a few LTRs knows that they only want more and more of your time, your attention, and your life (unless you get all clingy on her). What satisfies them today isn't necessarily going to satisfy them 3 months from now. The fact of the matter is, they get bored with a man who is predicable and always there for them. They really have this deep need for man who has other sh!t to care about besides them.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.