Reyaj
Master Don Juan
My girlfriend tells me how much she loves me.... Do they have a 6th sense?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Everytime I'm in cheating form
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jophil28
Master Don Juan
More than 6...many more.Jayer said:
My guess is that she intuits or senses or observes that your mind is focussed elsewhere and her " ..Love ya " is her attempt at re-focussing your attention back on her.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
So this just reinforces the theory thats its good to get distant every so often to keep them working for your attention.
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Yes I would agree.
What women say they want and what actually need are paradoxical. Any guy who has been in a few LTRs knows that they only want more and more of your time, your attention, and your life (unless you get all clingy on her). What satisfies them today isn't necessarily going to satisfy them 3 months from now. The fact of the matter is, they get bored with a man who is predicable and always there for them. They really have this deep need for man who has other sh!t to care about besides them.
What women say they want and what actually need are paradoxical. Any guy who has been in a few LTRs knows that they only want more and more of your time, your attention, and your life (unless you get all clingy on her). What satisfies them today isn't necessarily going to satisfy them 3 months from now. The fact of the matter is, they get bored with a man who is predicable and always there for them. They really have this deep need for man who has other sh!t to care about besides them.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.