Forget everything you learnt... who taught you... how you are in term of love... all you have to do is think about her... be considerate of her feelings... if she knows you think about her more than yourself... then... she will give you a chance... its easy...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Everyone got it all wrong... love is easy... here's how...
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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We had enough of your sh!t Saske. Get back to the vilage now !!
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Being interest in the party whom your conversing means you are attentive, charismatic, confident and overall present good conversationalist skills which is a good attribute and attractive trait to possess.
I had a couple of hot women telling me they want to be with me... I had natural game... I can talk my ways out of things... I learnt from Pook on how to not be AFC... But the only reason why she was into me was because I'm fun to be around... It's not about not being needy... everyone is the same... including girls... when you're needy you just want to see her every days... you don't care whether shes busy or not... or if she wants to... the point is they dont' care wheter you are needy or not... they just want you to be honest...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Very good Sasuke. May the Pook guide you.
Honesty is the best policy...my friend... think about yourself... would you like to date someone who lied to you about their history?... or how they learnt about it from a website... lets be honest... just keep it to yourself... because it is not a fault just because someone coudln't take care of his own emotional neeed...
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Their history is no relevant if the path to bliss is to be in the present moment.
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Then you clearly do not practice mindfulness.Nobody likes the present moment...
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That is a false dichotomy. The hardest it is, the harder it will continue to be because that is how you're perceiving reality. When you are in the present moment, then you are letting go of the past and any anticipation you expect from the future. What you truly desire will come into fruition.
Hardness is what stabilizes our molecular structure. When you are flowing like a water in a stream, then you are allow your consciousness to reach the deeper depths of the universe.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.