Forget everything you learnt... who taught you... how you are in term of love... all you have to do is think about her... be considerate of her feelings... if she knows you think about her more than yourself... then... she will give you a chance... its easy...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Everyone got it all wrong... love is easy... here's how...
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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We had enough of your sh!t Saske. Get back to the vilage now !!
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Being interest in the party whom your conversing means you are attentive, charismatic, confident and overall present good conversationalist skills which is a good attribute and attractive trait to possess.
I had a couple of hot women telling me they want to be with me... I had natural game... I can talk my ways out of things... I learnt from Pook on how to not be AFC... But the only reason why she was into me was because I'm fun to be around... It's not about not being needy... everyone is the same... including girls... when you're needy you just want to see her every days... you don't care whether shes busy or not... or if she wants to... the point is they dont' care wheter you are needy or not... they just want you to be honest...
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Very good Sasuke. May the Pook guide you.
Honesty is the best policy...my friend... think about yourself... would you like to date someone who lied to you about their history?... or how they learnt about it from a website... lets be honest... just keep it to yourself... because it is not a fault just because someone coudln't take care of his own emotional neeed...
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Their history is no relevant if the path to bliss is to be in the present moment.
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Then you clearly do not practice mindfulness.Nobody likes the present moment...
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That is a false dichotomy. The hardest it is, the harder it will continue to be because that is how you're perceiving reality. When you are in the present moment, then you are letting go of the past and any anticipation you expect from the future. What you truly desire will come into fruition.
Hardness is what stabilizes our molecular structure. When you are flowing like a water in a stream, then you are allow your consciousness to reach the deeper depths of the universe.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.