Forget everything you learnt... who taught you... how you are in term of love... all you have to do is think about her... be considerate of her feelings... if she knows you think about her more than yourself... then... she will give you a chance... its easy...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Everyone got it all wrong... love is easy... here's how...
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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We had enough of your sh!t Saske. Get back to the vilage now !!
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Being interest in the party whom your conversing means you are attentive, charismatic, confident and overall present good conversationalist skills which is a good attribute and attractive trait to possess.
I had a couple of hot women telling me they want to be with me... I had natural game... I can talk my ways out of things... I learnt from Pook on how to not be AFC... But the only reason why she was into me was because I'm fun to be around... It's not about not being needy... everyone is the same... including girls... when you're needy you just want to see her every days... you don't care whether shes busy or not... or if she wants to... the point is they dont' care wheter you are needy or not... they just want you to be honest...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Very good Sasuke. May the Pook guide you.
Honesty is the best policy...my friend... think about yourself... would you like to date someone who lied to you about their history?... or how they learnt about it from a website... lets be honest... just keep it to yourself... because it is not a fault just because someone coudln't take care of his own emotional neeed...
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Their history is no relevant if the path to bliss is to be in the present moment.
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Then you clearly do not practice mindfulness.Nobody likes the present moment...
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That is a false dichotomy. The hardest it is, the harder it will continue to be because that is how you're perceiving reality. When you are in the present moment, then you are letting go of the past and any anticipation you expect from the future. What you truly desire will come into fruition.
Hardness is what stabilizes our molecular structure. When you are flowing like a water in a stream, then you are allow your consciousness to reach the deeper depths of the universe.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.