Right here: http://www.Ishouldbegettinglayedinsteadofwankingof.comKen785 said:can we view the tape anywhere? or are there still pics? i heard she posed for playboy too...where are those?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Right here: http://www.Ishouldbegettinglayedinsteadofwankingof.comKen785 said:can we view the tape anywhere? or are there still pics? i heard she posed for playboy too...where are those?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Sh*t like this pisses me off, because if she'd gone out with four knuckle dragging, crank using, white trash guys like Kevin Federline or Kid Rock, nobody would be saying a damn thing and you know it. But if they're black, even if they seem wealthy and look clean and well-dressed, you assume they're diseased. Such racist ignorance. Besides if you subtract out the prison population, and those in the ghetto, the rate between blacks and whites is probably not that statistically different. If her last boyfriends were middle class blacks(which is probably the case with Kim, I mean I doubt someone rolling with the Paris Hilton posse is picking her boyfriends up from the projects), then they probably had no more likely hood to be diseased than a white from the same background.sparky0000 said:the rate of std's in america is MUCH higher among blacks than other groups. just a fact. you can check it on any medical site. in saying that, unless you go young the broad probably has something already.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.