Right here: http://www.Ishouldbegettinglayedinsteadofwankingof.comKen785 said:can we view the tape anywhere? or are there still pics? i heard she posed for playboy too...where are those?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Right here: http://www.Ishouldbegettinglayedinsteadofwankingof.comKen785 said:can we view the tape anywhere? or are there still pics? i heard she posed for playboy too...where are those?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sh*t like this pisses me off, because if she'd gone out with four knuckle dragging, crank using, white trash guys like Kevin Federline or Kid Rock, nobody would be saying a damn thing and you know it. But if they're black, even if they seem wealthy and look clean and well-dressed, you assume they're diseased. Such racist ignorance. Besides if you subtract out the prison population, and those in the ghetto, the rate between blacks and whites is probably not that statistically different. If her last boyfriends were middle class blacks(which is probably the case with Kim, I mean I doubt someone rolling with the Paris Hilton posse is picking her boyfriends up from the projects), then they probably had no more likely hood to be diseased than a white from the same background.sparky0000 said:the rate of std's in america is MUCH higher among blacks than other groups. just a fact. you can check it on any medical site. in saying that, unless you go young the broad probably has something already.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.