Right here: http://www.Ishouldbegettinglayedinsteadofwankingof.comKen785 said:can we view the tape anywhere? or are there still pics? i heard she posed for playboy too...where are those?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Right here: http://www.Ishouldbegettinglayedinsteadofwankingof.comKen785 said:can we view the tape anywhere? or are there still pics? i heard she posed for playboy too...where are those?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sh*t like this pisses me off, because if she'd gone out with four knuckle dragging, crank using, white trash guys like Kevin Federline or Kid Rock, nobody would be saying a damn thing and you know it. But if they're black, even if they seem wealthy and look clean and well-dressed, you assume they're diseased. Such racist ignorance. Besides if you subtract out the prison population, and those in the ghetto, the rate between blacks and whites is probably not that statistically different. If her last boyfriends were middle class blacks(which is probably the case with Kim, I mean I doubt someone rolling with the Paris Hilton posse is picking her boyfriends up from the projects), then they probably had no more likely hood to be diseased than a white from the same background.sparky0000 said:the rate of std's in america is MUCH higher among blacks than other groups. just a fact. you can check it on any medical site. in saying that, unless you go young the broad probably has something already.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.