Right here: http://www.Ishouldbegettinglayedinsteadofwankingof.comKen785 said:can we view the tape anywhere? or are there still pics? i heard she posed for playboy too...where are those?
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Right here: http://www.Ishouldbegettinglayedinsteadofwankingof.comKen785 said:can we view the tape anywhere? or are there still pics? i heard she posed for playboy too...where are those?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Sh*t like this pisses me off, because if she'd gone out with four knuckle dragging, crank using, white trash guys like Kevin Federline or Kid Rock, nobody would be saying a damn thing and you know it. But if they're black, even if they seem wealthy and look clean and well-dressed, you assume they're diseased. Such racist ignorance. Besides if you subtract out the prison population, and those in the ghetto, the rate between blacks and whites is probably not that statistically different. If her last boyfriends were middle class blacks(which is probably the case with Kim, I mean I doubt someone rolling with the Paris Hilton posse is picking her boyfriends up from the projects), then they probably had no more likely hood to be diseased than a white from the same background.sparky0000 said:the rate of std's in america is MUCH higher among blacks than other groups. just a fact. you can check it on any medical site. in saying that, unless you go young the broad probably has something already.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.