Right here: http://www.Ishouldbegettinglayedinsteadofwankingof.comKen785 said:can we view the tape anywhere? or are there still pics? i heard she posed for playboy too...where are those?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Right here: http://www.Ishouldbegettinglayedinsteadofwankingof.comKen785 said:can we view the tape anywhere? or are there still pics? i heard she posed for playboy too...where are those?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sh*t like this pisses me off, because if she'd gone out with four knuckle dragging, crank using, white trash guys like Kevin Federline or Kid Rock, nobody would be saying a damn thing and you know it. But if they're black, even if they seem wealthy and look clean and well-dressed, you assume they're diseased. Such racist ignorance. Besides if you subtract out the prison population, and those in the ghetto, the rate between blacks and whites is probably not that statistically different. If her last boyfriends were middle class blacks(which is probably the case with Kim, I mean I doubt someone rolling with the Paris Hilton posse is picking her boyfriends up from the projects), then they probably had no more likely hood to be diseased than a white from the same background.sparky0000 said:the rate of std's in america is MUCH higher among blacks than other groups. just a fact. you can check it on any medical site. in saying that, unless you go young the broad probably has something already.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.