"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Have you ever had a chick leave you or you got rid of them and found out they were getting married down the line or were with someone else and you were GLAD they'd never be coming back around?


I find it better they find someone else as it means I don't have to hear from or deal with them anymore. (Not that I'd bother answering them in any way regardless) Especially if they were a problem to begin with.

I've had one chick I'd gotten rid of who'd wanted to get married to me a while back and had two incidents (one was the final) that got back to me "conveniently" through the sour-grapevine and I can assure you I was happy as hell she was gone-zo for GOOD! :up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The411 said:
I can assure you I was happy as hell she was gone-zo for GOOD! :up:
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so much so that you couldn't stop yourself from bringing her up and making a thread about her. :whistle:
 
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so let me get this strizzzystr8 right hur. You have no feelings for this woman, glad shes getting married, and yet you make a thread about her that shows that she conjures up feelings inside you. Interesting how the mind works isnt it?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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JohnChops said:
so let me get this strizzzystr8 right hur. You have no feelings for this woman, glad shes getting married, and yet you make a thread about her that shows that she conjures up feelings inside you. Interesting how the mind works isnt it?
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LMAO.

Nah dude. Just a different topic than the normal BS.

It was a long time ago now. Just an example of actually being glad someone left, you dropped them, they got married etc. rather than "wondering what went wrong" "if getting rid of them was or wasn't a mistake" like the majority of breakup topics on SS seem to be.

Let's not all fly off the handle! hahaha
 
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