"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The411

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Have you ever had a chick leave you or you got rid of them and found out they were getting married down the line or were with someone else and you were GLAD they'd never be coming back around?


I find it better they find someone else as it means I don't have to hear from or deal with them anymore. (Not that I'd bother answering them in any way regardless) Especially if they were a problem to begin with.

I've had one chick I'd gotten rid of who'd wanted to get married to me a while back and had two incidents (one was the final) that got back to me "conveniently" through the sour-grapevine and I can assure you I was happy as hell she was gone-zo for GOOD! :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The411 said:
I can assure you I was happy as hell she was gone-zo for GOOD! :up:
so much so that you couldn't stop yourself from bringing her up and making a thread about her. :whistle:
 

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so let me get this strizzzystr8 right hur. You have no feelings for this woman, glad shes getting married, and yet you make a thread about her that shows that she conjures up feelings inside you. Interesting how the mind works isnt it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JohnChops said:
so let me get this strizzzystr8 right hur. You have no feelings for this woman, glad shes getting married, and yet you make a thread about her that shows that she conjures up feelings inside you. Interesting how the mind works isnt it?
LMAO.

Nah dude. Just a different topic than the normal BS.

It was a long time ago now. Just an example of actually being glad someone left, you dropped them, they got married etc. rather than "wondering what went wrong" "if getting rid of them was or wasn't a mistake" like the majority of breakup topics on SS seem to be.

Let's not all fly off the handle! hahaha
 
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