"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The411

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Have you ever had a chick leave you or you got rid of them and found out they were getting married down the line or were with someone else and you were GLAD they'd never be coming back around?


I find it better they find someone else as it means I don't have to hear from or deal with them anymore. (Not that I'd bother answering them in any way regardless) Especially if they were a problem to begin with.

I've had one chick I'd gotten rid of who'd wanted to get married to me a while back and had two incidents (one was the final) that got back to me "conveniently" through the sour-grapevine and I can assure you I was happy as hell she was gone-zo for GOOD! :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The411 said:
I can assure you I was happy as hell she was gone-zo for GOOD! :up:
so much so that you couldn't stop yourself from bringing her up and making a thread about her. :whistle:
 

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so let me get this strizzzystr8 right hur. You have no feelings for this woman, glad shes getting married, and yet you make a thread about her that shows that she conjures up feelings inside you. Interesting how the mind works isnt it?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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JohnChops said:
so let me get this strizzzystr8 right hur. You have no feelings for this woman, glad shes getting married, and yet you make a thread about her that shows that she conjures up feelings inside you. Interesting how the mind works isnt it?
LMAO.

Nah dude. Just a different topic than the normal BS.

It was a long time ago now. Just an example of actually being glad someone left, you dropped them, they got married etc. rather than "wondering what went wrong" "if getting rid of them was or wasn't a mistake" like the majority of breakup topics on SS seem to be.

Let's not all fly off the handle! hahaha
 
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