"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ever been hit by a girl?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I think the best thing to do is take the hit, and grab her arms roughly, so she can't move. Any ideas?
one of the many exact reasons for why i thought of this question. i pretty much agree with a response like that, unless she was going to town on me. at that point id have to say "fvck it" and just deck her one good time. :box:CaptainJ said:
Things have to be so messed up for something like that to happen that there's only one way to handle:FinalWay said:
Take the punch, look straight in her eyes in contempt, turn away and leave for good. I mean no contact whatsoever, no emailing, no texting.
Physical aggression is one thing that deserves NC forever, or else you will be validating the ultimate form of disrespect.
By doing this you avoid any sort of closure and make her spend the rest of her life in regret. That's the ultimate form of revenge.
Hope it never comes to this though.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
DistrictofPenguins
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Well said...tafakna said:
Lol, Don't hit her back, that's a horrible idea.
beatoven
Don Juan
I touched her on the shoulder to get her attention, and she wheeled around and knocked the wind out of me.
Later I found out she really liked me, and my touch was so unexpected and profound she didn't know how to react.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
beatoven
Don Juan
Yes, although it would have been better if my coworkers weren't standing there and laughing their asses off when I got I punched lol.FinalWay said:and you lived happily ever after? jk
Actually I reckon it would most likely work but there is risk involved.DistrictofPenguins said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3FgMLROTqJ0