"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ever been hit by a girl?
- Thread starter FinalWay
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I think the best thing to do is take the hit, and grab her arms roughly, so she can't move. Any ideas?
one of the many exact reasons for why i thought of this question. i pretty much agree with a response like that, unless she was going to town on me. at that point id have to say "fvck it" and just deck her one good time. :box:CaptainJ said:
Things have to be so messed up for something like that to happen that there's only one way to handle:FinalWay said:
Take the punch, look straight in her eyes in contempt, turn away and leave for good. I mean no contact whatsoever, no emailing, no texting.
Physical aggression is one thing that deserves NC forever, or else you will be validating the ultimate form of disrespect.
By doing this you avoid any sort of closure and make her spend the rest of her life in regret. That's the ultimate form of revenge.
Hope it never comes to this though.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DistrictofPenguins
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 8, 2010
- Messages
- 14
- Reaction score
- 0
Well said...tafakna said:
Lol, Don't hit her back, that's a horrible idea.
beatoven
Don Juan
I touched her on the shoulder to get her attention, and she wheeled around and knocked the wind out of me.
Later I found out she really liked me, and my touch was so unexpected and profound she didn't know how to react.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
beatoven
Don Juan
Yes, although it would have been better if my coworkers weren't standing there and laughing their asses off when I got I punched lol.FinalWay said:and you lived happily ever after? jk
Actually I reckon it would most likely work but there is risk involved.DistrictofPenguins said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3FgMLROTqJ0