"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ever been hit by a girl?
- Thread starter FinalWay
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I think the best thing to do is take the hit, and grab her arms roughly, so she can't move. Any ideas?
one of the many exact reasons for why i thought of this question. i pretty much agree with a response like that, unless she was going to town on me. at that point id have to say "fvck it" and just deck her one good time. :box:CaptainJ said:
Things have to be so messed up for something like that to happen that there's only one way to handle:FinalWay said:
Take the punch, look straight in her eyes in contempt, turn away and leave for good. I mean no contact whatsoever, no emailing, no texting.
Physical aggression is one thing that deserves NC forever, or else you will be validating the ultimate form of disrespect.
By doing this you avoid any sort of closure and make her spend the rest of her life in regret. That's the ultimate form of revenge.
Hope it never comes to this though.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DistrictofPenguins
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Well said...tafakna said:
Lol, Don't hit her back, that's a horrible idea.
beatoven
Don Juan
I touched her on the shoulder to get her attention, and she wheeled around and knocked the wind out of me.
Later I found out she really liked me, and my touch was so unexpected and profound she didn't know how to react.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
beatoven
Don Juan
Yes, although it would have been better if my coworkers weren't standing there and laughing their asses off when I got I punched lol.FinalWay said:and you lived happily ever after? jk
Actually I reckon it would most likely work but there is risk involved.DistrictofPenguins said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3FgMLROTqJ0