"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ever been hit by a girl?

FinalWay

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like the topic says...ever had it happen? i mean a good hard punch. who was it? girlfriend, some chick, wife etc. how or why did it happen and how did you react?
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is a question I'm interested about. What do you do if a girl hits/slaps/attacks you? Do you hit back? I'm assuming no, because not only will all the Captain Save a hoe's turn around and jump you, but you'd get fvcked over in the court system if it ever came to it.

I think the best thing to do is take the hit, and grab her arms roughly, so she can't move. Any ideas?
 

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CaptainJ said:
This is a question I'm interested about. What do you do if a girl hits/slaps/attacks you? Do you hit back? I'm assuming no, because not only will all the Captain Save a hoe's turn around and jump you, but you'd get fvcked over in the court system if it ever came to it.

I think the best thing to do is take the hit, and grab her arms roughly, so she can't move. Any ideas?
one of the many exact reasons for why i thought of this question. i pretty much agree with a response like that, unless she was going to town on me. at that point id have to say "fvck it" and just deck her one good time. :box:
 

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FinalWay said:
like the topic says...ever had it happen? i mean a good hard punch. who was it? girlfriend, some chick, wife etc. how or why did it happen and how did you react?
Things have to be so messed up for something like that to happen that there's only one way to handle:

Take the punch, look straight in her eyes in contempt, turn away and leave for good. I mean no contact whatsoever, no emailing, no texting.

Physical aggression is one thing that deserves NC forever, or else you will be validating the ultimate form of disrespect.

By doing this you avoid any sort of closure and make her spend the rest of her life in regret. That's the ultimate form of revenge.

Hope it never comes to this though.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tafakna said:
Things have to be so messed up for something like that to happen that there's only one way to handle:

Take the punch, look straight in her eyes in contempt, turn away and leave for good. I mean no contact whatsoever, no emailing, no texting.

Physical aggression is one thing that deserves NC forever, or else you will be validating the ultimate form of disrespect.

By doing this you avoid any sort of closure and make her spend the rest of her life in regret. That's the ultimate form of revenge.

Hope it never comes to this though.
i'm gonna go ahead and agree with what you said as this would of been my first choice if it ever happened. anybody have any real life situation with this?
 
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tafakna said:
Things have to be so messed up for something like that to happen that there's only one way to handle:

Take the punch, look straight in her eyes in contempt, turn away and leave for good. I mean no contact whatsoever, no emailing, no texting.

Physical aggression is one thing that deserves NC forever, or else you will be validating the ultimate form of disrespect.

By doing this you avoid any sort of closure and make her spend the rest of her life in regret. That's the ultimate form of revenge.

Hope it never comes to this though.
Well said...

Lol, Don't hit her back, that's a horrible idea.
 

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Would be funny if you transitioned it into a VERY light submission move. No pain, just maybe put her in a light kimura to show her who's boss. ;)
 

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and what if it's just some chick like i said earlier, just looking for a fight? i've seen that happen when in h.s.
 

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I got socked in the stomach by my [hot] supervisor at work.

I touched her on the shoulder to get her attention, and she wheeled around and knocked the wind out of me.

Later I found out she really liked me, and my touch was so unexpected and profound she didn't know how to react.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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beatoven said:
I got socked in the stomach by my [hot] supervisor at work.

I touched her on the shoulder to get her attention, and she wheeled around and knocked the wind out of me.

Later I found out she really liked me, and my touch was so unexpected and profound she didn't know how to react.
and you lived happily ever after? jk:p
 

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FinalWay said:
and you lived happily ever after? jk:p
Yes, although it would have been better if my coworkers weren't standing there and laughing their asses off when I got I punched lol.
 
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