"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ethics of a Don Juan

lebRambo

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hello all.

I would like to turn the topic today to something we don't hear much about: the Ethical code that a Don Juan should/does live his life by.

We are always hearing about how to get laid: subtle manuevers, tactical secrets, C&F, etc. However, what we sometimes neglect is whether such mind games can be ethically justifiable when, for the most part, they are used as levergae just to get some sex.

I am not tying to preach, for I really don't know what the general consensus is. I am not yet at the stage where I can lay down a set of rules for myself, and prmise myself on my honour that I will abide by those rules.

So, my like-minded friends: What ethical guidelines, if any, should a Don Juan always observe, and is there anything that is not to be used in the hunt for sex, LTRs, etc. ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HereToImprove

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My view is that its us men trying to gain back the power that should rightfully be ours. Society has dictated that the initial stages of a sexually-inspired male/female interaction is one of the few times in life when a woman clearly holds power over a man.

DJing is the means by which we regain this power and place ourselves in the natural hierarchy of things as men. Like many powers, you can use it for good or evil, or many things in between. After all, a simple knife can be used to cut bread, or stab someone to death.

No matter how you use it, you will be in control once again, and the mastery of self control is one of the great goals in life we should all be striving for.
 

lebRambo

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you have stated the purpose, the end goal of playing the game as it were, but have neglected to mention if anything should be off limits to this endeavour.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Personaly, I don't think that there is or should be a code of ethics or morality for DJs. However, I think there may a specific purpose of a DJ.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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