"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Escalation? Being Sexual?? How???

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Seriously, I am completely lost in this regard. I truly don’t know how to do this!

For some odd reason I can’t get this down. I know I missed many lays just because I did not escalate and did not turn sexual. I just don’t know how to do it in a proper way.

I feel like an idiot saying "sexy" things and insinuating sex and probably flirting in general. It just doesn’t come naturally to me.

Please help, I am making real progress and now I am at this sticking point. I want to break through this.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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you have to be comfortable with your sexuality and being sexual. you feel like an idiot trying to be sexy?

listen to the song by rihanna called rude boy.

women want your c*ck and they want your cvm, so make like your gonna give it to them and their gonna love it.
 

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I am comfortable with my sexuality; that does not help me being more sexual with near strangers I just met.

I just feel awkward saying and doing "sexual" things to girls I barely know. I guess it has something to do with a lack in confidence?

Still, where can I get some info about escalation? Any old posts or good books?
 
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