"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Escalation? Being Sexual?? How???

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Seriously, I am completely lost in this regard. I truly don’t know how to do this!

For some odd reason I can’t get this down. I know I missed many lays just because I did not escalate and did not turn sexual. I just don’t know how to do it in a proper way.

I feel like an idiot saying "sexy" things and insinuating sex and probably flirting in general. It just doesn’t come naturally to me.

Please help, I am making real progress and now I am at this sticking point. I want to break through this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you have to be comfortable with your sexuality and being sexual. you feel like an idiot trying to be sexy?

listen to the song by rihanna called rude boy.

women want your c*ck and they want your cvm, so make like your gonna give it to them and their gonna love it.
 
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I am comfortable with my sexuality; that does not help me being more sexual with near strangers I just met.

I just feel awkward saying and doing "sexual" things to girls I barely know. I guess it has something to do with a lack in confidence?

Still, where can I get some info about escalation? Any old posts or good books?
 
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