Escalation? Being Sexual?? How???

[pinhas]

Seriously, I am completely lost in this regard. I truly don’t know how to do this!

For some odd reason I can’t get this down. I know I missed many lays just because I did not escalate and did not turn sexual. I just don’t know how to do it in a proper way.

I feel like an idiot saying "sexy" things and insinuating sex and probably flirting in general. It just doesn’t come naturally to me.

Please help, I am making real progress and now I am at this sticking point. I want to break through this.

 

[Chromeo]

you have to be comfortable with your sexuality and being sexual. you feel like an idiot trying to be sexy?

listen to the song by rihanna called rude boy.

women want your c*ck and they want your cvm, so make like your gonna give it to them and their gonna love it.

 

[pinhas]

I am comfortable with my sexuality; that does not help me being more sexual with near strangers I just met.

I just feel awkward saying and doing "sexual" things to girls I barely know. I guess it has something to do with a lack in confidence?

Still, where can I get some info about escalation? Any old posts or good books?

 

[CaptainJ]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BsVxmk9pq2Y

Watch this video and look at how Marlon Brando creates huge sexual masculine dominance in every situation. That is what you want to create.