"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Escalation? Being Sexual?? How???

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Seriously, I am completely lost in this regard. I truly don’t know how to do this!

For some odd reason I can’t get this down. I know I missed many lays just because I did not escalate and did not turn sexual. I just don’t know how to do it in a proper way.

I feel like an idiot saying "sexy" things and insinuating sex and probably flirting in general. It just doesn’t come naturally to me.

Please help, I am making real progress and now I am at this sticking point. I want to break through this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you have to be comfortable with your sexuality and being sexual. you feel like an idiot trying to be sexy?

listen to the song by rihanna called rude boy.

women want your c*ck and they want your cvm, so make like your gonna give it to them and their gonna love it.
 
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I am comfortable with my sexuality; that does not help me being more sexual with near strangers I just met.

I just feel awkward saying and doing "sexual" things to girls I barely know. I guess it has something to do with a lack in confidence?

Still, where can I get some info about escalation? Any old posts or good books?
 
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