"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Escalation? Being Sexual?? How???

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Seriously, I am completely lost in this regard. I truly don’t know how to do this!

For some odd reason I can’t get this down. I know I missed many lays just because I did not escalate and did not turn sexual. I just don’t know how to do it in a proper way.

I feel like an idiot saying "sexy" things and insinuating sex and probably flirting in general. It just doesn’t come naturally to me.

Please help, I am making real progress and now I am at this sticking point. I want to break through this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you have to be comfortable with your sexuality and being sexual. you feel like an idiot trying to be sexy?

listen to the song by rihanna called rude boy.

women want your c*ck and they want your cvm, so make like your gonna give it to them and their gonna love it.
 
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I am comfortable with my sexuality; that does not help me being more sexual with near strangers I just met.

I just feel awkward saying and doing "sexual" things to girls I barely know. I guess it has something to do with a lack in confidence?

Still, where can I get some info about escalation? Any old posts or good books?
 
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