"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Holla homeys it's been almost two months since I been here...anyways I've stopped coming here because, well I don't know.but I just stopped.But I now I need advice, today I lost my Virginity!(props to David X and you guys ofcourse)...but it kinda sucked for me,..i last like 5 mins tops.Then we chilled in bed, after about 30 mins, she wanted round two...Guess what? My **** didnt wana get strong..it was semi erect,a real softie, couldn't get it in,maybe I was anxious or something...but this has happened to me for the 2nd time...Its starting to bug me as im jus 17 years old, I should be able to get it up in an instant! We ended up not having another round because of this..So I want to know what causes this? Is it anxiety? Is it watching porn? What the hell causes it? Damnit I should be happy right now!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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it will get better, many guys suffer from Anxiety, some *** waaaaay too soon, some cant get it up etc.
 
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I would say cause you're 17 and it's your first time (I was 17 my first time), it's DEFINITELY anxiety.

This is why it's so easy to get a hard-on watching porn. No one to impress. I bet you if a hot, buck-naked, chick with legs up to her neck walked in on one of us beatin' our meat to some goat porn, most of us would be pretty hard-pressed not to lose our hard on.

Be happy that she wanted to try again. Let her know it was your first time. Doesn't mean you have to be a p*ssy about it and get touchy feely. Just say "I need some practice, baby. Give a brotha a hand."
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sh*t man, please tell me you were using condoms every time all the time... I don't care if you go limp or whatever, there's some scary sh*t out there waiting to shrivel your nuts.

Anyway, the biggest thing you can do is have more sex. It's a new realm you're entering (literally and figuratively), and you need experience. Get the experience, and you'll be alright.
 
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Don't worry, I used a condom everytime,all the time,my parents would kill me I impragnated a girl.Thanks man...this girl was a virgin too so, it took me like two hours to finally get it in, not as rock hard I wanted it to be.Thanks man,atleast now I can throw away thoughts of gettin me some viagra.
 
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It's anxiety. I'm guessing you don't have a problem getting hard when watching porn? If that's the case, then there's no physiological reason as to why you can't get hard and it's due to anxiety. It's not an unusual problem. The first couple times I got laid, I had a hard time keeping it up too. But you'll learn to relax and you'll get over it.

As said earlier in this thread, it's one thing when you're beating off in your room watching porn. It's another thing when you have to please a girl, you have last a long time etc. The pressure of the situation can get to you.

Try to relax, and forget about pleasing her initially. Just focus on enjoying the moment. Once you're more comfortable, you can start thinking about it from her perspective a little more.
 
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Certain foods, and a general healthy diet can and will help in that department. I agree that in your case, its anxiety but its something to remember for the future.

It may sound silly, but foods have amazing properties, and some really do affect libido.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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next time, get her to masturbate you, no intercourse, just get used to her getting used to your ****, lick/kiss her/ finger her, dot rush it, it will literally...come! just a bit of anxiety dear boy
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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your 17 ffs!

dont get hung up about it, never mind diet etc.. just get comfortable with yourself and her, dont get hung up about performing, there IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU
 
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