"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Holla homeys it's been almost two months since I been here...anyways I've stopped coming here because, well I don't know.but I just stopped.But I now I need advice, today I lost my Virginity!(props to David X and you guys ofcourse)...but it kinda sucked for me,..i last like 5 mins tops.Then we chilled in bed, after about 30 mins, she wanted round two...Guess what? My **** didnt wana get strong..it was semi erect,a real softie, couldn't get it in,maybe I was anxious or something...but this has happened to me for the 2nd time...Its starting to bug me as im jus 17 years old, I should be able to get it up in an instant! We ended up not having another round because of this..So I want to know what causes this? Is it anxiety? Is it watching porn? What the hell causes it? Damnit I should be happy right now!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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it will get better, many guys suffer from Anxiety, some *** waaaaay too soon, some cant get it up etc.
 
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I would say cause you're 17 and it's your first time (I was 17 my first time), it's DEFINITELY anxiety.

This is why it's so easy to get a hard-on watching porn. No one to impress. I bet you if a hot, buck-naked, chick with legs up to her neck walked in on one of us beatin' our meat to some goat porn, most of us would be pretty hard-pressed not to lose our hard on.

Be happy that she wanted to try again. Let her know it was your first time. Doesn't mean you have to be a p*ssy about it and get touchy feely. Just say "I need some practice, baby. Give a brotha a hand."
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sh*t man, please tell me you were using condoms every time all the time... I don't care if you go limp or whatever, there's some scary sh*t out there waiting to shrivel your nuts.

Anyway, the biggest thing you can do is have more sex. It's a new realm you're entering (literally and figuratively), and you need experience. Get the experience, and you'll be alright.
 
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Don't worry, I used a condom everytime,all the time,my parents would kill me I impragnated a girl.Thanks man...this girl was a virgin too so, it took me like two hours to finally get it in, not as rock hard I wanted it to be.Thanks man,atleast now I can throw away thoughts of gettin me some viagra.
 
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It's anxiety. I'm guessing you don't have a problem getting hard when watching porn? If that's the case, then there's no physiological reason as to why you can't get hard and it's due to anxiety. It's not an unusual problem. The first couple times I got laid, I had a hard time keeping it up too. But you'll learn to relax and you'll get over it.

As said earlier in this thread, it's one thing when you're beating off in your room watching porn. It's another thing when you have to please a girl, you have last a long time etc. The pressure of the situation can get to you.

Try to relax, and forget about pleasing her initially. Just focus on enjoying the moment. Once you're more comfortable, you can start thinking about it from her perspective a little more.
 
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Certain foods, and a general healthy diet can and will help in that department. I agree that in your case, its anxiety but its something to remember for the future.

It may sound silly, but foods have amazing properties, and some really do affect libido.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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next time, get her to masturbate you, no intercourse, just get used to her getting used to your ****, lick/kiss her/ finger her, dot rush it, it will literally...come! just a bit of anxiety dear boy
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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your 17 ffs!

dont get hung up about it, never mind diet etc.. just get comfortable with yourself and her, dont get hung up about performing, there IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU
 
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