"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Epidemic of BV

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You know, it's medically impossible to ejaculate 12 oz of semen after a single climax. Even if you were in the top 5% of ejaculators who have hyperspermia, you'd only be able to ejaculate approx. around .2 - .3 oz max.
I’m Superman
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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this thread is so:

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I ate bad puzzy twice ( i dont really have a sense of smell..born that way) anyway the first time was 20+ years ago..luckly my immune system was still some what strong but still needed antibotics..did it again about 4 years ago with sum young chick...i couldnt leave my bed for 3 days. I was fvckin delerious...took every ounce of strength to make to the doctors. Sick for almost 3 weeks...i **** u not
 

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Oh if ur in a long time relationship with chick and her vag starts smellin different..yea shes cheating...caught two different women over the years when i started investigating more
 

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Oh if ur in a long time relationship with chick and her vag starts smellin different..yea shes cheating...caught two different women over the years when i started investigating more
This is a fact. Their scent is normally consistent. If it goes foul over a period, she put in someone elses dyck or saliva into her system, her body chemistry adjusted to that other guy. They will also get yeast infections in increasing amounts while they are going back and forth.

They will deny this all day long and the doctors won't back it, but those of us who have had women for many years, notice these small details.

A woman that swaps out many multiple c0cks and or saliva gets BV, also her emotions are more all over the place. It's not a good thing for them, but their sisters are preaching it.
 

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This is a fact. Their scent is normally consistent. If it goes foul over a period, she put in someone elses dyck or saliva into her system, her body chemistry adjusted to that other guy. They will also get yeast infections in increasing amounts while they are going back and forth.

They will deny this all day long and the doctors won't back it, but those of us who have had women for many years, notice these small details.

A woman that swaps out many multiple c0cks and or saliva gets BV, also her emotions are more all over the place. It's not a good thing for them, but their sisters are preaching it.
This.^ lol Womens' brains think they are so sly when they ho' around but their vags can give them away.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Always an interesting topic when non-medical staff feel they are more knowledgeable and have the answers than medical workers.
 

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This is a fact. Their scent is normally consistent. If it goes foul over a period, she put in someone elses dyck or saliva into her system, her body chemistry adjusted to that other guy. They will also get yeast infections in increasing amounts while they are going back and forth.

They will deny this all day long and the doctors won't back it, but those of us who have had women for many years, notice these small details.

A woman that swaps out many multiple c0cks and or saliva gets BV, also her emotions are more all over the place. It's not a good thing for them, but their sisters are preaching it.
Yup
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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YOOOOOOO I think my gf has this. It's not constant, more fleeting, but for some reason, I've put up with this for a year.

I mean its not all the but sometimes there will definitely be an unpleasant smell, I keep thinking back to past girlfriends I never encountered this with and it just makes me sick. I think I even posted on here about it and one of the female posters/everyone was telling me to tell her. I kinda did drop a hint and she went and showered. I honestly think she hasn't got to a doctor and doesn't know how to treat it.

I ended up withdrawing/going off sex the last 6 months. She is SO ****ING QUICK IN THE SHOWER. She will use my shower and be out in 2 minutes... I keep thinking that is not enough time to do anything as I have multiple long showers each day

Last week she came over and made a point about her having a 2-hour bath, I think she wanted sex, I said I was tired (yeah I'm a b!tch boy now).

Now I think back - it's actually ruined our sex life - I was wondering why my sex drive was low... but I'm watching porn and talking to other girls/going on dates so it's not my sex drive, it's HER.

I must have eaten this girl out twice in the whole relationship, I refuse to and she doesn't even ask, I dont feel guilty either. No fingering either, but I will play with her ****, but yeah, I'm actually disgusted with my self for staying this long, thanks for the thread/reminder.

A guy that doesn't call a girl out for some stank is either a cuck or doesn't care about his own health and hygiene.
Never again

Like @Lookatu said I do it pretty casually and subtly. Usually if we're about to bang and I find out I'll wait til after to tell her, otherwise she'll get all self conscious and it might kill my boner. Afterwards I'll casually say she needs to drink more water and wait for her to ask why, then tell her because she's got some smells. If I like her as a person and am molding her I'll be supportive about it because it's a pretty embarrassing thing for women to be told. I've actually never had it kill a relationship, if anything it shows that I care enough to support her in self improvement.
Well if you're smashing them anyway you must not care about your hygiene either you hypocrite.

Also simply telling them to drink more water is hardly some breakthrough intervention, it doesn't always work like that.

EDIT: Not sure she has BV as she does have discharge all the time and even wears pads in her underwear sometimes - I didn't ask the cause of this, i should have

This whole thread just reminded and disgusted me
 
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YOOOOOOO I think my gf has this. It's not constant, more fleeting, but for some reason, I've put up with this for a year.

I mean its not all the but sometimes there will definitely be an unpleasant smell, I keep thinking back to past girlfriends I never encountered this with and it just makes me sick. I think I even posted on here about it and one of the female posters/everyone was telling me to tell her. I kinda did drop a hint and she went and showered. I honestly think she hasn't got to a doctor and doesn't know how to treat it.

I ended up withdrawing/going off sex the last 6 months. She is SO ****ING QUICK IN THE SHOWER. She will use my shower and be out in 2 minutes... I keep thinking that is not enough time to do anything as I have multiple long showers each day

Last week she came over and made a point about her having a 2-hour bath, I think she wanted sex, I said I was tired (yeah I'm a b!tch boy now).

Now I think back - it's actually ruined our sex life - I was wondering why my sex drive was low... but I'm watching porn and talking to other girls/going on dates so it's not my sex drive, it's HER.

I must have eaten this girl out twice in the whole relationship, I refuse to and she doesn't even ask, I dont feel guilty either. No fingering either, but I will play with her ****, but yeah, I'm actually disgusted with my self for staying this long, thanks for the thread/reminder.



Never again


Well if you're smashing them anyway you must not care about your hygiene either you hypocrite.

Also simply telling them to drink more water is hardly some breakthrough intervention, it doesn't always work like that.

EDIT: Not sure she has BV as she does have discharge all the time and even wears pads in her underwear sometimes - I didn't ask the cause of this, i should have

This whole thread just reminded and disgusted me
Yeh bro its most likely BV. She has to go to the physician. They have medications that may help. Or she can do the natural route and use yogurts etc. How long can you keep living like this? You will eventually have to tell her. It sucks bro.
 

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Yeh bro its most likely BV. She has to go to the physician. They have medications that may help. Or she can do the natural route and use yogurts etc. How long can you keep living like this? You will eventually have to tell her. It sucks bro.
She's my ex now lol I dumped her 2 weeks ago. I've seen her twice and we had sex twice (no smell).

It's somebody else's problem now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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