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YOOOOOOO I think my gf has this. It's not constant, more fleeting, but for some reason, I've put up with this for a year.

I mean its not all the but sometimes there will definitely be an unpleasant smell, I keep thinking back to past girlfriends I never encountered this with and it just makes me sick. I think I even posted on here about it and one of the female posters/everyone was telling me to tell her. I kinda did drop a hint and she went and showered. I honestly think she hasn't got to a doctor and doesn't know how to treat it.

I ended up withdrawing/going off sex the last 6 months. She is SO ****ING QUICK IN THE SHOWER. She will use my shower and be out in 2 minutes... I keep thinking that is not enough time to do anything as I have multiple long showers each day

Last week she came over and made a point about her having a 2-hour bath, I think she wanted sex, I said I was tired (yeah I'm a b!tch boy now).

Now I think back - it's actually ruined our sex life - I was wondering why my sex drive was low... but I'm watching porn and talking to other girls/going on dates so it's not my sex drive, it's HER.

I must have eaten this girl out twice in the whole relationship, I refuse to and she doesn't even ask, I dont feel guilty either. No fingering either, but I will play with her ****, but yeah, I'm actually disgusted with my self for staying this long, thanks for the thread/reminder.

A guy that doesn't call a girl out for some stank is either a cuck or doesn't care about his own health and hygiene.
Never again

Like @Lookatu said I do it pretty casually and subtly. Usually if we're about to bang and I find out I'll wait til after to tell her, otherwise she'll get all self conscious and it might kill my boner. Afterwards I'll casually say she needs to drink more water and wait for her to ask why, then tell her because she's got some smells. If I like her as a person and am molding her I'll be supportive about it because it's a pretty embarrassing thing for women to be told. I've actually never had it kill a relationship, if anything it shows that I care enough to support her in self improvement.
Well if you're smashing them anyway you must not care about your hygiene either you hypocrite.

Also simply telling them to drink more water is hardly some breakthrough intervention, it doesn't always work like that.

EDIT: Not sure she has BV as she does have discharge all the time and even wears pads in her underwear sometimes - I didn't ask the cause of this, i should have

This whole thread just reminded and disgusted me
 
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YOOOOOOO I think my gf has this. It's not constant, more fleeting, but for some reason, I've put up with this for a year.

I mean its not all the but sometimes there will definitely be an unpleasant smell, I keep thinking back to past girlfriends I never encountered this with and it just makes me sick. I think I even posted on here about it and one of the female posters/everyone was telling me to tell her. I kinda did drop a hint and she went and showered. I honestly think she hasn't got to a doctor and doesn't know how to treat it.

I ended up withdrawing/going off sex the last 6 months. She is SO ****ING QUICK IN THE SHOWER. She will use my shower and be out in 2 minutes... I keep thinking that is not enough time to do anything as I have multiple long showers each day

Last week she came over and made a point about her having a 2-hour bath, I think she wanted sex, I said I was tired (yeah I'm a b!tch boy now).

Now I think back - it's actually ruined our sex life - I was wondering why my sex drive was low... but I'm watching porn and talking to other girls/going on dates so it's not my sex drive, it's HER.

I must have eaten this girl out twice in the whole relationship, I refuse to and she doesn't even ask, I dont feel guilty either. No fingering either, but I will play with her ****, but yeah, I'm actually disgusted with my self for staying this long, thanks for the thread/reminder.



Never again


Well if you're smashing them anyway you must not care about your hygiene either you hypocrite.

Also simply telling them to drink more water is hardly some breakthrough intervention, it doesn't always work like that.

EDIT: Not sure she has BV as she does have discharge all the time and even wears pads in her underwear sometimes - I didn't ask the cause of this, i should have

This whole thread just reminded and disgusted me
Yeh bro its most likely BV. She has to go to the physician. They have medications that may help. Or she can do the natural route and use yogurts etc. How long can you keep living like this? You will eventually have to tell her. It sucks bro.
 

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Yeh bro its most likely BV. She has to go to the physician. They have medications that may help. Or she can do the natural route and use yogurts etc. How long can you keep living like this? You will eventually have to tell her. It sucks bro.
She's my ex now lol I dumped her 2 weeks ago. I've seen her twice and we had sex twice (no smell).

It's somebody else's problem now.
 

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My ex wifes gynecologist consultant for actor Richard Gere in "Dr T and the ladies". He had his wife work in his practice as a nurse.
I'm not saying that it wouldn't be advantageous, from a business perspective, to be a particularly handsome male gynecologist. I'm just saying that I can't image having to examine a parade of vaginas, from 12 to 112, 40 hrs/wk 52 wks/yr, year after year, and then just not wanting to see that particular orifice in my free time. There was a reason the cobblers family never had shoes, and I imagine there are plenty of frustrated wives of gynecologist, too.
 

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I think that job is only suited for a woman or a gay guy.
in my humble opinion, I'd guess a male gyno would have test levels through the roof.
 

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I'm not saying that it wouldn't be advantageous, from a business perspective, to be a particularly handsome male gynecologist. I'm just saying that I can't image having to examine a parade of vaginas, from 12 to 112, 40 hrs/wk 52 wks/yr, year after year, and then just not wanting to see that particular orifice in my free time. There was a reason the cobblers family never had shoes, and I imagine there are plenty of frustrated wives of gynecologist, too.
I imagine so. Probably desensitized.
 

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in my humble opinion, I'd guess a male gyno would have test levels through the roof.
Not if he can't fvck them. It would "train" him to not get excited around pvssy and just cause he sees it doesn't mean he can fvck. Almost like being cvcked.

Its not like he gets to be a raging bull in there. Because if he would his reinforcement would have his test levels jacked. When a man can fvck what he wants it does something to his psyche and thus hormones.
 
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Not if he can't fvck them. It would "train" him to not get excited around pvssy and just cause he sees it doesn't mean he can fvck. Almost like being cvcked.

Its not like he gets to be a raging bukl in there. Because if he would his reinforcement would have his test levels jacked. When a man can fvck what he wants it does something to his psyche and thus hormones.
this archetypal man should never expose himself to even pictures of pvzzy then. Seriously.

I'm just now thinking that a man like this could probably do very well as a performer in porn movies himself.
The women that would be in his environment would only be dtf ones and that psyche and hormones reinforcement would be built in.(guaranteed)
 

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in my humble opinion, I'd guess a male gyno would have test levels through the roof.
Not really...especially if he's repulsed by much of what he sees, which, odds are, he would be. Even if he were the Team Gyno to the Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders, he'd have to dissociate, to remain professional; it's not like he could walk around with an 8hr boner every day. It wouldn't be a healthy job, for any normal man. I'm sure it pays much better than a lot of worse jobs, though.

Don't get me wrong. I think my own diick is beautiful, but they call it "bumping uglies" for a reason, and no-one should have to examine strange genitals for a living, and anyone who chooses to is probably a little off.
 
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this archetypal man should never expose himself to even pictures of pvzzy then. Seriously.

I'm just now thinking that a man like this could probably do very well as a performer in porn movies himself.
The women that would be in his environment would only be dtf ones and that psyche and hormones reinforcement would be built in.(guaranteed)
Exposure to too many pics gives away your sexual energy. It's a fact. When you remove the pics for good you'll get this attention back and act properly in real life.
 

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Not really...especially if he's repulsed by much of what he sees, which, odds are, he would be. Even if he was the Team Gyno to the Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders, he'd had to dissociate; it's not like he could walk around with an 8hr boner every day. It wouldn't be a healthy job, for any normal man. I'm sure it pays much better than a lot of worse jobs, though.

Don't get me wrong. I think my own diick is beautiful, but they call it "bumping uglies" for a reason, and no-one should have to examine strange genitals for a living, and anyone who chooses to is probably a little off.
Yeh you are correct. I did a multi week rotation with an about to retire gynecologist. We become decent friends because we shared a common love of women. He was a South American old school doctor who has his practice in Chicago. He who would sexually harass his patients in a joking manner. He got away with it because he was old. He told me he still is a horn dog because the puzzy outside of work is attractive. He says that his job doesn't effect his sexuality because he views this puzzy as unattractive puzzy. He doesn't generalize it to all women. He was definitely a womanizer though even though he was married. We got along very well lol
 

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Yeh you are correct. I did a multi week rotation with an about to retire gynecologist. We become decent friends because we shared a common love of women. He was a South American old school doctor who has his practice in Chicago. He who would sexually harass his patients in a joking manner. He got away with it because he was old. He told me he still is a horn dog because the puzzy outside of work is attractive. He says that his job doesn't effect his sexuality because he views this puzzy as unattractive puzzy. He doesn't generalize it to all women. He was definitely a womanizer though even though he was married. We got along very well lol
He was lucky to have good pvssy at home. I see how that could work for him.
 

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Not really...especially if he's repulsed by much of what he sees, which, odds are, he would be. Even if he were the Team Gyno to the Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders, he'd have to dissociate, to remain professional; it's not like he could walk around with an 8hr boner every day. It wouldn't be a healthy job, for any normal man. I'm sure it pays much better than a lot of worse jobs, though.

Don't get me wrong. I think my own diick is beautiful, but they call it "bumping uglies" for a reason, and no-one should have to examine strange genitals for a living, and anyone who chooses to is probably a little off.
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