"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ended the year in a HUGE way.

Mr. Debonaire

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i don't think he should have stood up for the girl, because racists should burn, but the fact that he did manage to defend one person against a mob with only words doesn't deserve a suspension
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wtf i dont' get it how do you get suspended for protecting the girl from the mob without doign anything physical

what was teh school's reason for kicking you
 

BrWnSugaMan

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We need some clarification:

1.) What exactly was the racial comment?

2.) You did act like a chump. You said that you would not let anyone get beat up by a mob. However, you need to ask yourself whether you would have stuck up for her if you did not have feelings for her or if she was a complete stranger.

Honestly, I think it had less to do with you doing the "right thing" and more to do with the chump side of you.

Just because you have been suspended for the rest of the school year does not mean this is over. You will see many of the same black kids in high school. You will be known as "that guy that stuck up for the racist girl".

By defending her, you have successfully associated yourself with racism in the minds of some.

I think you went a little too far in the situation. You should of just broke up the fight and not threatended anyone. Also, you should not have directly escorted her to the office. You should have told her to go to the office, but follow a little behind in case she needed help.

***For a mob to form against her, she must have said some extreme racial comment*** What was it? Please don't tone down the comment to justify you defending her.
 

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Originally posted by BigBrent701
Cant believe the luck 14 years olds have next to me haha. Here I am almost 19 and i dont get that much play
I'm not surprised, I know this guy, his name is, guess what, BRENT and he aslo GETS NO PLAY WHAT SO EVER.

I guess its the name or somthing.
lol






On the original post, YOU DEFINETLY DID THE WRONG THING. YOU WONT REMEMBER HER IN 10 YEARS, BUT GETTING KICK OUT FROM YOUR SCHOOL MIGHT AFFECT what college or job you get, SAVING HER LIFE FROM AN ANGRY MOB WILL NOT (it was at school, wat were they going to do, slap her at most).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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