"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ended the year in a HUGE way.

Mr. Debonaire

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i don't think he should have stood up for the girl, because racists should burn, but the fact that he did manage to defend one person against a mob with only words doesn't deserve a suspension
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wtf i dont' get it how do you get suspended for protecting the girl from the mob without doign anything physical

what was teh school's reason for kicking you
 

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We need some clarification:

1.) What exactly was the racial comment?

2.) You did act like a chump. You said that you would not let anyone get beat up by a mob. However, you need to ask yourself whether you would have stuck up for her if you did not have feelings for her or if she was a complete stranger.

Honestly, I think it had less to do with you doing the "right thing" and more to do with the chump side of you.

Just because you have been suspended for the rest of the school year does not mean this is over. You will see many of the same black kids in high school. You will be known as "that guy that stuck up for the racist girl".

By defending her, you have successfully associated yourself with racism in the minds of some.

I think you went a little too far in the situation. You should of just broke up the fight and not threatended anyone. Also, you should not have directly escorted her to the office. You should have told her to go to the office, but follow a little behind in case she needed help.

***For a mob to form against her, she must have said some extreme racial comment*** What was it? Please don't tone down the comment to justify you defending her.
 

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Originally posted by BigBrent701
Cant believe the luck 14 years olds have next to me haha. Here I am almost 19 and i dont get that much play
I'm not surprised, I know this guy, his name is, guess what, BRENT and he aslo GETS NO PLAY WHAT SO EVER.

I guess its the name or somthing.
lol






On the original post, YOU DEFINETLY DID THE WRONG THING. YOU WONT REMEMBER HER IN 10 YEARS, BUT GETTING KICK OUT FROM YOUR SCHOOL MIGHT AFFECT what college or job you get, SAVING HER LIFE FROM AN ANGRY MOB WILL NOT (it was at school, wat were they going to do, slap her at most).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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