Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
i don't think he should have stood up for the girl, because racists should burn, but the fact that he did manage to defend one person against a mob with only words doesn't deserve a suspension
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Ended the year in a HUGE way.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
wtf i dont' get it how do you get suspended for protecting the girl from the mob without doign anything physical
what was teh school's reason for kicking you
what was teh school's reason for kicking you
BrWnSugaMan
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We need some clarification:
1.) What exactly was the racial comment?
2.) You did act like a chump. You said that you would not let anyone get beat up by a mob. However, you need to ask yourself whether you would have stuck up for her if you did not have feelings for her or if she was a complete stranger.
Honestly, I think it had less to do with you doing the "right thing" and more to do with the chump side of you.
Just because you have been suspended for the rest of the school year does not mean this is over. You will see many of the same black kids in high school. You will be known as "that guy that stuck up for the racist girl".
By defending her, you have successfully associated yourself with racism in the minds of some.
I think you went a little too far in the situation. You should of just broke up the fight and not threatended anyone. Also, you should not have directly escorted her to the office. You should have told her to go to the office, but follow a little behind in case she needed help.
***For a mob to form against her, she must have said some extreme racial comment*** What was it? Please don't tone down the comment to justify you defending her.
1.) What exactly was the racial comment?
2.) You did act like a chump. You said that you would not let anyone get beat up by a mob. However, you need to ask yourself whether you would have stuck up for her if you did not have feelings for her or if she was a complete stranger.
Honestly, I think it had less to do with you doing the "right thing" and more to do with the chump side of you.
Just because you have been suspended for the rest of the school year does not mean this is over. You will see many of the same black kids in high school. You will be known as "that guy that stuck up for the racist girl".
By defending her, you have successfully associated yourself with racism in the minds of some.
I think you went a little too far in the situation. You should of just broke up the fight and not threatended anyone. Also, you should not have directly escorted her to the office. You should have told her to go to the office, but follow a little behind in case she needed help.
***For a mob to form against her, she must have said some extreme racial comment*** What was it? Please don't tone down the comment to justify you defending her.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Ended the year in a HUGE way.
WBAFC?Originally posted by MetalFortress
Good job Cap'n Save-a-Ho. You are officially WBAFC. Way to go.
I'm not surprised, I know this guy, his name is, guess what, BRENT and he aslo GETS NO PLAY WHAT SO EVER.Originally posted by BigBrent701
Cant believe the luck 14 years olds have next to me haha. Here I am almost 19 and i dont get that much play
I guess its the name or somthing.
lol
On the original post, YOU DEFINETLY DID THE WRONG THING. YOU WONT REMEMBER HER IN 10 YEARS, BUT GETTING KICK OUT FROM YOUR SCHOOL MIGHT AFFECT what college or job you get, SAVING HER LIFE FROM AN ANGRY MOB WILL NOT (it was at school, wat were they going to do, slap her at most).
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Re: Ended the year in a HUGE way.
Way below average frustrated chumpOriginally posted by bluelemond
WBAFC?