Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
i don't think he should have stood up for the girl, because racists should burn, but the fact that he did manage to defend one person against a mob with only words doesn't deserve a suspension
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ended the year in a HUGE way.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
wtf i dont' get it how do you get suspended for protecting the girl from the mob without doign anything physical
what was teh school's reason for kicking you
what was teh school's reason for kicking you
BrWnSugaMan
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We need some clarification:
1.) What exactly was the racial comment?
2.) You did act like a chump. You said that you would not let anyone get beat up by a mob. However, you need to ask yourself whether you would have stuck up for her if you did not have feelings for her or if she was a complete stranger.
Honestly, I think it had less to do with you doing the "right thing" and more to do with the chump side of you.
Just because you have been suspended for the rest of the school year does not mean this is over. You will see many of the same black kids in high school. You will be known as "that guy that stuck up for the racist girl".
By defending her, you have successfully associated yourself with racism in the minds of some.
I think you went a little too far in the situation. You should of just broke up the fight and not threatended anyone. Also, you should not have directly escorted her to the office. You should have told her to go to the office, but follow a little behind in case she needed help.
***For a mob to form against her, she must have said some extreme racial comment*** What was it? Please don't tone down the comment to justify you defending her.
1.) What exactly was the racial comment?
2.) You did act like a chump. You said that you would not let anyone get beat up by a mob. However, you need to ask yourself whether you would have stuck up for her if you did not have feelings for her or if she was a complete stranger.
Honestly, I think it had less to do with you doing the "right thing" and more to do with the chump side of you.
Just because you have been suspended for the rest of the school year does not mean this is over. You will see many of the same black kids in high school. You will be known as "that guy that stuck up for the racist girl".
By defending her, you have successfully associated yourself with racism in the minds of some.
I think you went a little too far in the situation. You should of just broke up the fight and not threatended anyone. Also, you should not have directly escorted her to the office. You should have told her to go to the office, but follow a little behind in case she needed help.
***For a mob to form against her, she must have said some extreme racial comment*** What was it? Please don't tone down the comment to justify you defending her.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Ended the year in a HUGE way.
WBAFC?Originally posted by MetalFortress
Good job Cap'n Save-a-Ho. You are officially WBAFC. Way to go.
I'm not surprised, I know this guy, his name is, guess what, BRENT and he aslo GETS NO PLAY WHAT SO EVER.Originally posted by BigBrent701
Cant believe the luck 14 years olds have next to me haha. Here I am almost 19 and i dont get that much play
I guess its the name or somthing.
lol
On the original post, YOU DEFINETLY DID THE WRONG THING. YOU WONT REMEMBER HER IN 10 YEARS, BUT GETTING KICK OUT FROM YOUR SCHOOL MIGHT AFFECT what college or job you get, SAVING HER LIFE FROM AN ANGRY MOB WILL NOT (it was at school, wat were they going to do, slap her at most).
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Re: Ended the year in a HUGE way.
Way below average frustrated chumpOriginally posted by bluelemond
WBAFC?