corrector
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The crackers have been gone for a while know. Think the last batch was gone since January.Throw them in the trash can. Problem solved.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The crackers have been gone for a while know. Think the last batch was gone since January.Throw them in the trash can. Problem solved.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What do you say about his training intensity? I believe he should be sweating at least 4 times a week to get to a more acceptable level.If you’re still above 40% bf you need to get more aggressive with this diet.
Get 4 eggs a day everyday into your diet and whatever else you eat. Drink lots of water, some nuts and seeds added to your diet. No sugar/chocolate/cakes. Look at yourself naked in the mirror every morning, weigh yourself. Attack this.
Dude, its called personal discipline. Period.I'm trying to curb my emotional eating but it's really difficult.
I thought there supposed to be food shortgages coming in the new year, so I bought a bunch of crackers and what not. Nothing happened yet, and some events at home precipated me to start eating this food and now I'm over 40% bf. Healthy chips, crackers (whole wheat) and arrowroot buiscuits.
Planning to see a doctor next week but don't want to disclose too much information as to the emotional triggers to eating this type of foods, etc...
Has anyone have this problem before? How did you deal with emotional eating?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Those foods are shvt. They are pure weight gainers. Low in nutrition, low in fiber, high in empty calories. Stop eating shvt. If it is shvt, don’t bring it into your house.It's hard to wrap my head around how small foods (ie lets say if you took a tablespoon of Maple Syrup, or half a small croussaunt (sp?) can equate to an extra pound or two of weight, when the item itself is not even a few gram of comparable weight, but I guess it's just the way it is.
Isn't your body fat percentage calculation an estimate? Your weight can vary several pounds up and down simply due to water. I wouldn't obsess so much on one simple metric like that. Making long term lifestyle changes should be the focus.
And yes, waffles and syrup will make you fat. This is why I advocate carb restriction, because it keeps you away from processed foods like that. Breakfast is the hardest meal to avoid bad food. Breakfast meats like bacon and sausage are the worst for you. Oatmeal is ok, but most people want sugar in it. Almost all cereal is garbage, pancakes and waffles are worse. Muffins are all sugar. If you like peanut butter, breakfast is a good time for it, as it keeps you away from worse foods. I'd even let you put it on toast if there was no other way. Anything is better than waffles.
Don’t do it! That’s fattening, processed junk. Influencers are grifters. Most of em on gear. May as well eat eggs and bacon rather than this stuff.
You’re not a fan of the whole “Anabolic Diet” thing going on?Don’t do it! That’s fattening, processed junk. Influencers are grifters. Most of em on gear. May as well eat eggs and bacon rather than this stuff.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yeah I agree, but less cardio more weights, lifting 4-6 times a week, upping protein and cutting out sugar/processed carbs will see results. But I just didn't want to scare him and give advice I don't think he will take. Making some diet adjustments will also help even if he goes to the gym just 2 times a week.What do you say about his training intensity? I believe he should be sweating at least 4 times a week to get to a more acceptable level.
I'll repeat my tips; more walking and biking. More " random" walks . Get a step calculator app. Start doing push ups. Even if its 1. And dont worry about half a croissant. Start counting calories just to get a better view on how much is going in.
46 is still a age where you have the power and energy to fix this. Add another ten years and this body type will be harder to change .
No. Not a fan of anything low carb.You’re not a fan of the whole “Anabolic Diet” thing going on?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A Scottish guy fasted for 382 days drinking only water and coffee, he lost 125kg (275lbs) and he kept the weight off.People who starve to death only feel hunger the first few days.
This is something I can verify. Sometimes at supper I have to get creative to add more calories. Like butter, evoo, nuts, something without volume, but it's a good thing. My normal routine is 1-1/8 meal a day. When you embrace the glory of not needing to jam food in your face all the time life gets Better on many levels.Fasting will quickly shrink the stomach, which is what OP needs. Overweight people get hungry because they are used to so much food. Once that cycle is broken, it's easier to eat less. People who starve to death only feel hunger the first few days.
FYI, I feel I drank too much at the weekend, last meal was 2pm Sunday, I won't be eating until tomorrow (5pm Tuesday) and I've worked out every day. It's been tough, I can't wait to eat. These things need to be done.A Scottish guy fasted for 382 days drinking only water and coffee, he lost 125kg (275lbs) and he kept the weight off.
Fat people just need to stop eating, electrolytes and vitamins until they hit their weight goal.
Not many fat people have the discipline and willpower to stop eating and use their own fat stores for energy.
Hope you try some fasting @corrector you will see results that will motivate you further.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.