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Master Don Juan
This is funny. My wife and her friends always say, "the smaller it is, the bigger it will get."
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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What a bunch of dumb b.tches. How big were their tits? These are just shallow wh0reish women who just want some fvcking rod up their vaginas...stupid vessels of nonsense is their brains.BigSmooth said:If any girl tells you that size is "soooooo" overrated, they are probably lying to you. The majority of girls would take an above average penis over a below average one.
Just two nights ago, we were at the bars and there were two girls sitting about 4 ft away from us, and one girl rambled on about how she had sex with her guy friend last night and how small he was. She talked about this for a long ass time, to the point that it was quite disturbing. The other girl then said that "maybe he knows how to use it" but by her tone we knew she didn't mean it. The first girl scoffs and simply stated, "if it's small it's small." And then they proceeded to both laugh.
Sorry for that story, it probably didn't help to reassure you at all but I'm just stating the facts.
I would just try to stay confident because honestly it's not the end of the world and you will find girls who won't care as much. Also if you have any redeeming qualities definitely try to portray and work on them more.
I take it she will measure a person's penis before she has sex with that said person?Capt.America said:Like 5.9....i know that's around the average but girls these days just don't understand. Society brainwashed them to think anything under 6.5 is no good. I remember talking to this girl and she said she wont fucc any guy that's under 7. Its not about the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Harry Wilmington said:Why not just try dating Asian girls? In their culture most men's size tend to be small, so i imagine you would not be laughed at as much.
Also, you may find that the more sex you hvae, the bigger it will get. When i was a virgin i was barely over 6 inches (at age 23); now i'm at 8. I don't know if it had something to do with testosterone increasing during sex or what, but the more i had the bigger it grew!
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
This guy has it. Contrary to what porn might convey, women orgasm much more easily from oral/****/g-spot stimulation. Do that, and she will hardly care how big you are.flashpoint said:how small is small here?
and learn to "use it". your other tools as well. truth be told vaginal orgasms are rare anyways, you gotta work the other buttons too in order to make that happen. and when it happens your size wont really matter.
Bullchit. They're only rare if you dont know what youre doing. Get vaginal orgasms working consistently and youll have a sex slave for life.flashpoint said:how small is small here?
and learn to "use it". your other tools as well. truth be told vaginal orgasms are rare anyways, you gotta work the other buttons too in order to make that happen. and when it happens your size wont really matter.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ThisConsidering that the average is about 5.5" then you're fine really. You should have just told those b!tches that it wasn't your fault their vaginas were too loose.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.